Details Determine Success Or Failure: Pay Attention To Your Gesture And Etiquette.

So what should we pay attention to when we use gestures?

Therefore, the use of hand gestures is only normative, and it will not make any ado about nothing.

But there are many exceptions. In parts of the United States and Europe, they say they want to take a ride. In Germany, they say "1". In Japan, they say "5".

When you talk with others, you raise your thumbs up and turn to the third direction, that is, the opposite side of the thumb refers to the other person besides the conversation object, which is a mockery of the third.

The thumb and forefinger are connected to the ring, and the remaining three fingers are stretched out and palm outwards.

OK gestures originated from the United States, which means "agreeing", "smooth" and "very good" in the United States, while France says "zero" or "worthless"; in Japan it means "money"; in Thailand it says "no problem"; in Brazil it means vulgar and dirty.

This gesture was first used by British Prime Minister Churchill during World War II, and has now spread throughout the world to represent victory.

If the palm is inward, it becomes a curse gesture.

It is also called waving.

To express greetings, salutes, and thanks to others.

When you see a familiar person and have no time to separate yourself, raise your hand and immediately eliminate the feeling of being left out.

Palm outwards, facing each other, fingers pointing upward.

Don't forget to stretch your palm.

At the beginning of a meeting, farewell, sympathy, gratitude, apology, and so on, often hold hands with others.

First, we should pay attention to the order.

When shaking hands, the standard order for both sides to extend their hands should be "respecting the first".

That is, those who have high status first stretch out their hands, and those with low status extend their hands.

If it is a service person, usually do not take the initiative to reach out to the service objects.

When you shake hands with people, you usually hold for 3 to 5 seconds.

Usually, hands should be held with the right hand.

The left hand should not be used and hands should not be used frequently.

Many people like to hold their hands or hands in the back of their head. This is a relaxed gesture.

To do so in front of others, especially to serve people, gives people a sense of self censure.

Repeatedly playing with your fingers, or moving joints, or ringing, or clenching fist, or fingers moving, often give people a sense of boredom, it is difficult to accept.

It is usually not allowed to put one hand or hands in your pocket.

This kind of performance can make people feel that you are not doing your best in your work and you are busy with your leisure.

Unnecessary gestures can give people a sense of posture and lack of self-restraint.

For example, scratching your scalp, digging your ears, picking your nose, biting your nails, writing your fingers on the table, etc.