Swear Less And Do More.

In fact, what exists is reasonable.

This "scolding" so loud and unfailing for many years is bound to have its truth and value.

In the curse, we can see that many Chinese scolding is actually not a real curse, but rather a curse and vent.

This person lives with people in the world, but the quality and the way of life are different.

Although each has its own living methods, it is unavoidable to have a high or low score.

For example, when a BMM X5 just opened in the street, you rode a bicycle and watched it whistle past.

Just like you like X5 very much, see that the driver is very young, and he is completely without the wind and frost.

The psychology is unbalanced at once.

Heart scold: pull what drag! Ah, you are not rich at home! When you drive a BMW at a young age, do you know where the money comes from? Maybe a little white face! It's not promising! What a great thing!

The heart is like BMW, but actually only bicycles.

There is no doubt that this gap is great.

How to solve this internal imbalance? If we consider it from the material level, it will never happen overnight. It is a very hard struggle to make a leap from bicycle to BMW.

It would be much easier to solve this problem from a psychological level.

Look at that. The scolding in the mind just now pulls people down from the throne of BMW.

People get nothing for nothing. They ride their bicycles and work hard on their feet.

"Rub", people's height dropped, their height has risen, this psychological balance, not only balanced, their down-to-earth and clear conscience, but also let oneself on the "BMW" of ill gotten gains.

Material is not rich enough, social conditions are not ideal. In short, there is always a gap between ideal and reality.

This gap is always made up, otherwise it will not be easy.

There are two ways to make up: mental level and action level.

It is of course simple and quick to solve this gap at a spiritual level.

A clear analysis of this problem is to propose: the real way to narrow the gap, only action!

Like BMW, it can become the driving force of its own progress.

If you have the motivation and do a lot of things, you will be full of energy and play an extraordinary role.

To give yourself a reason and direction for struggle, to do a lot of things.

Sometimes progress requires motivation and reason.

Although everyone wants to move forward, there is always a lack of justification for us to move forward. On the contrary, the reason for us to retreat is very large.

It's easy for people to be more relaxed and easy to act.

Think of it is also a sense of comfort from their own minds, but the brain turned two things, from the real behavior of their own to enter the state of hard work, it is not so easy to operate.

If you want to understand, don't get caught in such a strange cycle.

If you have a curse, you might as well do something as early as possible, so that you can really get closer to your goal.

The same is true in work.

When new people start their jobs, they often face many problems.

In some jobs, the company is responsible for teaching, and the new person can learn from his predecessors.

But the company is not a treasure chest, some things can not be very comprehensive, this requires new people to explore, understand, think of ways to solve, or when they are aware of the problem, they immediately seek to be humble and seek help from other colleagues.

There is no lack of

Problems and complaining and shirking are not good for themselves, because they are new people, and they should boldly seek help and try.

Being right is a promotion to yourself. If you do not do enough, others will forgive you and see your enthusiasm and efforts, and at the same time, your own ability is improved in practice.

No matter in work or in life, try to put an end to curse events and learn to be brave and face them directly.