How Do You Get Along With Your Negative Colleagues?

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< p > the best way to deal with negative people is to clear them out of your life.

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< p > do not chat or sit with them for lunch at work.

Unless they are absolutely required, they should not be invited to the meeting.

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< p > if you can't avoid them because of your work, then stay close to them, a href= "//www.sjfzxm.com/news/index_c.asp" > friendship < /a >, but don't develop any deeper relationship.

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< p > please believe that your positive and optimistic attitude will not cheer them up.

On the contrary, they will see it as a challenge and resist them with their negative negativity.

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< p > the expression of "a href=" //www.sjfzxm.com/news/index_c.asp "optimistic" /a before the pessimists is like drawing a target on your forehead. Pessimists see it as a target to vent their hatred and no good.

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< p > most negative people will invest in their own negativity, so you should not try to pull them out.

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< p > negative people express themselves in negative and emotional language.

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< p > the only way to help negative people get rid of the cycle is to let themselves stand side by side with them.

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If P wants to do this, you should understand and agree with every word they say.

Then, as part of your consent, you repeat what they say, but replace words with emotional words with some less loaded words.

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< p > when you do this, you will notice that the negative person is actually changing her physiological state.

As long as you do this long enough, you can reduce a person's negativity until he can take off his colored glasses.

But it takes a long time.

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< p > < strong > empty your negative emotions < /strong > /p >

< p > dealing with negative people will drain and drain your energy.

Therefore, whenever you are forced to deal with such a person, you must spend some time afterwards to replenish your emotional battery.

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The best way to handle P is to call or visit a friend who shares your positive attitude and interests.

Or go out for a walk, listen to music and read some inspiring books.

Do something to relax your mind.

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